Used to be a porn addict and its been months since I quit. But I cant remove the guilt and shame I have for myself, so maybe this sexualization is only making it worse for me.

This is a lot more informing of where your head's at and how/why you feel this way than your original post implies.

I say this as an alcoholic who was not aware of just how much alcohol pervades culture until I got sober.

Because you're an addict in recovery, you are more likely to see it and take note of it being egregious whereas previously you probably didn't really notice/accepted it as normal.

The sexualization of so many things in our culture didn't change, you did, and that's important to keep in mind.

Best of luck in your continued recovery, from one addict to another.