The real thing to consider here is upgradability. Thinkpads are pretty OK to repair but no upgrades. For that I'd consider Framework.

Unfortunately I don't want an x86 laptop. x86 desktops only beat apple silicon laptops when GPU becomes involved, x86 laptops are nowhere near as good as apple silicon laptops.

Realistically, an actual laptop form factor is really important for some folks (including me).

Check out your local 2nd hand listings. You might get lucky with someone selling a used one at half price. At which point their lack of ram or storage becomes a much more palatable upgrade problem rather than a deal breaker.

I legit used to carry my mini PC back and fourth from office to home. Brix 4770r, when loaded it sounded like a vacuum, all office guys were making fun of me. Good times.

But legit, I'm surprised noone builds laptops from desktop components. I don't care if it's huge. Just give me that