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this post was submitted on 07 Jul 2026
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It's an easy, comforting answer.
"That person's life sucks because they do drugs" doesn't raise any uncomfortable questions, and it makes avoiding a similar situation seem easy. "That person is using drugs because their life sucks" leads us to ask why their life sucks and whether the same thing could happen to us.
That's a deep answer. Kinda like fundamental attribution error.
It is exactly fundamental attribution error, with a bit of motivated reasoning.
I guess a lot of people who haven't gone through some serious shit in their life really do find it difficult to accept how bad some people have it
It takes the "fate" out and puts in a level of control. Well your life is crappy because you do x, I don't do x so I'm safe.