It's when it happens to John Q. Public and he's ostracized by his peers and immediately a target of the internet that it's an issue.

Again, you're assuming that the accusations are false from the start and are directing your outrage against people that you already assume are lying and out to get you.

with the worst grip on the soap possible

That's a chud take. Monsters deserve fitting punishments, not sexually violent chud revenge fantasies.