Idk. That's a bit of a treacherous point in itself. I mean first of all life isn't supposed to be just the bare essentials. But than that argument gets abused a lot, the usual stuff being "a bit of beating didn't harm me"... but it probably did. At least I've rarely seen it been used in a good context. I'd say it depends. Some things used to be better, or simpler back in the days. Some weren't. I think a lot of things (in society) improved in the 20 years or so since I've finished growing up. I don't think the internet did. All the social media stuff got way worse. But it's complicated. I don't see any reason to be on 4chan at 13yo. But at the same time we also don't want some "clean" dystopian society like in the dark sci-fi movies. Sexuality is part of life. And so is making mistakes, experiences...