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Red Means No / 'That' CNC kink party Incident Log (archive.ph)
submitted 3 months ago by to c/sneerclub@awful.systems
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The incident log for the Red Means No CNC party that's popular in rat / postrat circles.

Highlights include 'non-negotiated' penetration and a woman being dropped on the floor so hard it gave her a concussion.

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[–] [S] 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 child)

full disclosure in that i feel (now) that the editorial decision to include names could have gone either way and i think some criticisms of that are valid, accountability journalism is a tough thing to do perfectly or get right the first time

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago

    I am divided on how to 1) document social context which is not obvious if you just watch a podcast with someone talking about alignment, but 2) not stick my nose in other people's business. I can pass on stories of abuse from you and some of the anonymous sources in mainstream media articles.

    I think that most kinkersters would recommend playing with these fantasies in a much more structured environment (eg. we rent the AirBNB and leave the door unlocked and a distinctive sign in the window, at some point after 8 pm you arrive and ravage us, or a rigger restrains the center of attention on his/her bed than people take advantage of him/her)

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