No. Guns give assholes carte blanche to be an asshole without consequences.
The idea that actions should have consequences is the real problem that both your latest and your parent comment describe. Parent comment talks about "putting up with shitty behavior", implying that they should be able to directly respond to such behavior. Any such response is "escalation". Your parent comment is describing a desire to commit offensive behavior, but that offensive behavior is held in check out of fear of a gun. You behave better.
Your current "consequences" argument says the same thing: You observe what you perceive to be poor behavior, and wish for "consequences". If that wish culminates in any sort of direct interaction with the poorly behaved, you have escalated. Your "fear for our lives" holds your own behavior in check. You behave better.
I can't control the road raging asshole. You can't control the road raging asshole. There will always be one road raging asshole somewhere. There doesn't need to be three. You can look inward and recognize the harmful, hostile attitudes in yourself that would lead to road rage, and you can actively suppress them. Alternatively, you can fear the external consequences arising from entertaining those harmful attitudes, and elect against such behaviors.
So long as you are going to continue to rationalize your good behavior as being the result of other people being armed, I'm not going to support your efforts to disarm the people creating those good results.
(Edit: Somehow I thought that you were an additional commenter. Edited to reflect that you are also the parent commenter)