She's saying that we can't be women bc it somehow erases the struggles of cis women, even though we face the exact same misogyny. She really wants to have it both ways where she rejects us as women, but still "respects" us because otherwise she just looks like a bigoted ghoul. Unfortunately for her, not wanting to be an awful piece of shit is not enough to prevent you from being one.

Transphobia doesn't have logic to it.
She plainly supports being bigotted due to being rich.

It sounds to me like she's only just now figured out that trans people have feelings and is trying to retcon her bigotry into trans-inclusive victimhood? Like, nonono, guys, you don't get what I'm saying, trans people have rights, of course, I'm just saying I do too! Right? It's just that trans people, who I totally respect and always have, are trampling on my rights! I'm the victim here!

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