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[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world -2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

A gay bar doesn't become a Nazi bar if one nazi shows up at it. But it does if all the gay people leave.

The only solution is to convince the bouncers to throw the nazi out.

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[–] Sas@piefed.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 months ago (1 child)

It becomes when it accepts and embraces the nazi despite knowing it is one

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[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world -1 points 3 months ago

Noone is embracing Israel. They are parasitic on the event.

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[–] Krauerking@lemy.lol 6 points 3 months ago

It doesnt take the gay people leaving for it to slide into a Nazi bar. People love to fight to be one of the good ones to people that hurt those they should consider allies and friends.

A space being queer does not excuse it of its complicity.

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[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 3 months ago (1 child)

That's just you being Prejudiced and thinking human nature is somehow different in gay people.

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[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world -1 points 3 months ago (1 child)

No its mathematics. If there's a club with 100 people 1 of whom is a nazi then it is a gay club with a nazi. If all the gay people leave then 100% of the club goers are Nazis and it has become a Nazi club.

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[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 3 months ago* (1 child)

You "forgot" the detail that some gays are NAZIs.

Well known example: Peter Tiel.

You're Prejudiced or, much worse, you think others are Prejudiced when it comes to homosexuality and are using the Israeli pink-washing crap to support Israel in Eurovision, the same Hasbara technique as used to justify mass murdering Muslims (most notably, Palestinians) "to protect homosexuals".

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[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world -1 points 3 months ago

No, as I've previously stated I think it's terrible that Israel are in Eurovision. But I think if the decent people abandon it, right-wing assholes will rush to fill the gaps.

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