Realistically at that point, would it be better to be on iOS than android, then? I know iOS is wayyyyyy locked down, but apple is slightly more privacy respecting than android from what I understand, because Apple's incentive is to sell you services and hardware, while Google's is to sell you as a product to advertisers?

I have no strong opinion here, looking to be educated. I've never wanted an iPhone, but I'm already looking at a used m1 air, and if google is going to rape me and now they're taking the lube away, would I (a person who is not techy enough to really understand how to fight back against this) be better off on an iPhone? Most of my income right now comes from doordashing. I'm fairly certain I won't be able to do that without play services or whatever iPhone uses