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PieFed dev Rimu bans user from Matrix
(thelemmy.club)
This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.
Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.
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when i read that post the subtext was always 'i'm isolating myself from anyone critical, only interacting through alts and toadies going forward'
like say what you will about the lemmy devs they've received way more criticism, targeted harassment and smears over the years without needing to turn it into a big vendetta like this has been. for example i've said that i think nutomic should step back in the past because of his actions! while i wish he handled that situation better and
while i wish his apology for it was better,
at least since then he has left us alone and has largely stepped back from moderating things, rather than attempting to actively silence all dissent
Being a developer is difficult, because a lot of people pay attention to what you say. And any mistake can get a lot of visibility. Sometimes I wish that Lemmy was a company, with a community manager who takes care of these things. But anyway, it is how it is.
in your case as well it doesn't help that there's a subset of ideologically motivated people just waiting to jump on any comment to run a smear campaign on it.
for me actions speak louder than words and despite my initial disappointment following the dm leak, years have passed and i haven't seen that turn into a pattern of behavior.
i will say i kind of prefer that lemmy isn't a company, in part because frankly i trust a handful of communists to not just hand over user info and ip addresses to the alphabet boys more than i would any sort of company