I don't bookmark every thread that pisses me off for future reference, and if you expected otherwise then that's just silly.

Maybe it was r/askfeminists where someone had posted asking about relationship advice and I got skewered for saying something to the effect of people in relationships don't need to verbalize consent every time if they're on the same page. Which is exactly what people are now saying here.

If you don't believe people on the feminist subreddits are like that, go over there and try having a reasonable discussion. I double-dog dare you.