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[–] 32 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Men have been trained from birth that displaying any kind of emotional need is a sign of weakness that others will use against them.

If a man does display this kind of vulnerability with you, it means:

  1. He is extremely stressed to the point where maintaining social norms is beyond his abilities at the moment.
  2. He trusts you in a way that can't be expressed in words.
  3. Both.
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  • [–] 15 points 4 months ago (1 child)

    Women have been trained to see men this way too. I showed vulnerability to my ex one time, and her attitude changed overnight and she broke up with me not long after.

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