You don’t want things to become better, you just want revenge for whatever slights they did you

personally i think "murdering or wanting to murder queer people for being queer" is more than a "slight" and is fine to answer with "revenge". this sort of placation has never worked for any oppressed group in history—it's certainly not about to work for queer people—and you should probably not be here if people calling that placation out for what it is makes you like this.