*gestures in the general direction of the entire internet *

try fedinsfw.app

This is the thing that gets me. It's kind of a double edged sword using an underground community like Lemmy. I still use Reddit for nsfw (God bless red reader) because the normie girls haven't migrated over here yet. There is such a mature community of self posting NSFW content that I haven't found anywhere else on the Internet like it tbh.

Go to Bluesky. I think due to the size of the Fediverse its porn content is infinitesimally smaller than Reddits. To flab my cheeks together and speak out of my ass locally hosting explicit content on a home server is also too risky. The low content available + search complexity makes googling boobs a better option.

Just use it. You will never see an ad if that is the only thing you are looking at.