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submitted 4 months ago by UnixSlvt42@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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You sicko perverts disgust me! You ruined my lesbian hucow session! Now I'll never lactate!

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[–] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 65 points 4 months ago (1 child)

Some of us straights are super weirded out by it too. It's either that or mean and I for one don't find either of those things sexy.

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[–] otacon239@lemmy.world 31 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Vanilla gang rise up

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[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 39 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Mannn I just want to see two (or more) people who are super into each other clearly having fun. Is that too much to ask for?

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[–] Mac@mander.xyz 5 points 4 months ago

Clearly

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[–] QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 months ago (1 child)

I KNOW RIGHT?? 😭😭
like a wholesome dating vlog but with sex

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[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 3 points 4 months ago

I remember finding one couple like a decade or more ago on the hub who'd post like 30 minute long videos where they'd spend the first 25 minutes or so just joking around and suddenly go "oh yeah we should probably give the viewers what they came here for" and spend last 5 minutes actually fucking.

Super wholesome and honestly made me laugh quite a few times but I've not been able to find their videos in like a decade

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