▲ 283 ▼ Anon needs a good response (thelemmy.club) submitted 4 months ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works [M] to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works 130 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] glimse@lemmy.world 9 points 4 months ago (2 children) But the reasons to be put off by lovebombing are justified. You're a stranger juggling knives and frustrated that they're backing away lol permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Anivia@feddit.org 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) Yes, I am well aware. I just know that lovebombing can also be seen, like in this greentext, as a deliberate manipulation tactic (and often probably is). My original comment was just meant to show the other side, that it isn't always a manipulation attempt. And I'm absolutely not saying they are in the wrong for being weary of it. I am childfree, and it's very hard in my country to find women that also never want children, so I get overly excited when I find one that is willing to go on a date with me. I have learned to tone it down permalink fedilink source parent [–] Soulg@ani.social 3 points 4 months ago I mean they keep acknowledging that it kinda just seems you're telling them that they have no choice but to pretend they're someone different than who they are permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Anivia@feddit.org 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) Yes, I am well aware. I just know that lovebombing can also be seen, like in this greentext, as a deliberate manipulation tactic (and often probably is). My original comment was just meant to show the other side, that it isn't always a manipulation attempt. And I'm absolutely not saying they are in the wrong for being weary of it. I am childfree, and it's very hard in my country to find women that also never want children, so I get overly excited when I find one that is willing to go on a date with me. I have learned to tone it down permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Soulg@ani.social 3 points 4 months ago I mean they keep acknowledging that it kinda just seems you're telling them that they have no choice but to pretend they're someone different than who they are permalink fedilink source parent