Nah, don't worry -- that's helpful! And sure, I wouldn't mind seeing that data. Though our situations are pretty different, more data couldn't hurt, right?
At a guess I’d say I don’t think one 10kWh+ battery would be enough to go off grid. Two might cover most situations if you have enough panels, don’t live in a super cold area (or have non-electric heating), and do power hungry things only in the daytime (charge car, run dishwasher, run clothes dryer, etc).
Heh, yeah. I think 20kwh battery would be the absolute bare minimum for us, and I'm leaning toward at least 40kwh. (Especially when you factor in other things -- the conversion from battery power to 120v/240v is only ~80% efficient, depending on inverter.* And the batteries will lose capacity over time, so it's better to overbuild and not need to replace them as soon.)
*Another upgrade path for the future is to run a DC power circuit through the house, at least for some lights and little stuff like phone/tablet chargers. DC power will be significantly more efficient because you don't have to go through that 80% efficient inverter to get it out of the batteries. Maybe I can even manage to find a heat pump that runs directly on DC.
We're on pure electric everything here, after all. No gas of any kind.
Plus it will work out better if you shower in the morning (so heating mostly happens when the sun is shining)
For the water heater in particular, I've already got a plan: going to put that sucker on a timer, so it can only run during the daytime. Actually already got a $1 thrift store timer, big old electro-mechanical thing, that should be able to do that job. A decent hot water heater will stay hot for days without power, and it's just two of us here, so it won't run out too quickly. Let it heat up during the day and then disconnect at night, and the water heater won't be a drain on the batteries at all. (That works well with our existing routine of showering in the evening, too. It should be nice and hot after running all day, and if it stays cold most of the night, no big deal. In fact, after some experimenting to see how quickly it heats up from dead cold, I might not even have it run during all daylight hours, just start it up a few hours before we usually shower.)
To some degree, I might try to do the same thing with heat, using programmable thermostats to raise the temperature during the day and then reduce heating demand during the night. Thermal storage is a lot cheaper than battery storage, after all. Who knows, might even go super crazy and actually build in some water tanks that can be heated during the day and then release that heat at night. Got a bunch of old 55 gallon drums sitting around I'm not using for anything else ... just need some heating elements and timers... (But, yeah, that part would definitely be a project for later. And still not sure I want big drums of water sitting around in our living space, especially because they'll be nearly useless in the summer.)
If it gets really desperate, I might even put the refrigerators on timers. They should be able to stay cold overnight okay, and then they can run all they want during the day.