I have watched the video, and I've watched a couple others on her channel. She doesn't speak like that normally, she's exaggerating it for the views. And the only video we've seen is the one she's chosen to put online (with her own edits), which will naturally portray her as in the right.

Apparently she's a law student, very litigious, and has been losing followers because her ongoing saga with the HOA board has become "boring".