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RIP Discord: Self-Hosted Discord Alternatives Tested (TeamSpeak, Stoat, Fluxer, Matrix, & More) (www.youtube.com)
submitted 3 months ago by ampersandrew@lemmy.world to c/selfhosted@lemmy.world
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I mostly lurk here, and I know we've had this discussion come up a number of times since Discord's age verification changes were announced, but I figured this video offers value for the walkthrough and comparative analysis. Like me, the video authors aren't seasoned self-hosters, and I've still got a lot to learn. Stoat and Fluxer both look appealing to me for my needs, but Stoat seemingly needs self-hosted servers to route through their master server (unless I'm missing something stupid) and I replicated the 404 for Fluxer's self-hosting documentation seen in the video, so it's looking like I'm leaning toward a Matrix server of some kind. Hopefully everyone looking for the Discord exit ramp is closer to finding it after this video.

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[-] early_riser@lemmy.world 11 points 3 months ago

I second this. My gaming group probably won't leave discord for the foreseeable future but Mumble is probably where we'd go if we did. IMO all these Discord alternatives are trying to do everything Discord does, when even Discord can't pull it off sustainably at their scale.

I don't want federation. I don't want it to scale to infinite concurrent users. What I want is something simple I can plonk on a crusty old laptop running Proxmox or a Raspberry pi for a few friends.

[-] Ricaz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago

Even on a crusty old laptop you can easily serve hundreds of users with Mumble

[-] early_riser@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

IDK, said laptop is from 2010.

[-] Ricaz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 months ago

Limiting factor will probably be network - if you hook it up with cable, it should be fine

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