“If this is all surprising to you then you’re not talking with the women in your life.”

To be fair, maybe Lemmy is less social than "average"? I'm certainly contributing to that statistic.

...Still, as a guy, it's kind of my experience everywhere. The longer I live, even as isolated as I am, the more I'm bewildered by other men being incapable of following the "don't be a jerk" rule, incapable of shutting up and listening to women, or doing/saying straight up terrible, sexist things, all while knowing that's the tip of the iceberg.

I can't even imagine the experience of being a woman using Uber. It's mind boggling that so many male commenters wag their fingers like they somehow do.