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Our duty (thelemmy.club)
submitted 7 months ago by to c/memes@lemmy.world
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[–] 10 points 7 months ago (6 children)

Meh grass is always greener. I’m sure there are lots of stuff about having kids which are amazing.

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  • [–] 11 points 7 months ago (5 children)

    Its true, but [politics incoming] it's harder since the nuclear home resulted in the elimination of community, and both parents are forced to work to get by, and it only looks to be getting worse.

    Raising kids is great (for many people), but it shouldn't be your entire life. The unfortunate reality is that work and raising kids is the only life many people have access to.

    It's also not really the case that parents are "doing it to keep the population up" so the premise is wrong.

    But it's funny to imagine it that way

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  • [–] 9 points 7 months ago (4 children)

    Well now I’m going to run it in! Neener neener neeeeener!

    Jk. You are right though, we need wider community, and this capitalist hellscape has ruined a great many things, in addition to raising a family. I honestly have no clue how my parents, especially my mom did it.

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  • [–] 10 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    I asked my parents exactly this.

    They said something like

    It was possible to live on one salary, so your mother could be a full time stay at home mom. This gave us the energy to be able to follow other passions

    Basically 2 people with 2 full-time jobs between them have more energy than 2 people with 3 full time jobs between them.

    Mom could volunteer and join clubs while I was at school. Dad could do marathons on the weekend. We could do family activities like camping or skiing because they weren't exhausted by also having to do another 40 hours of work per week between them.

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    Yeah, but my mom worked full time (over, really, more than 40hrs plus a long commute) dad also worked full time, plus a teacher so lots of extra junk t at teachers have to do. Still, they raised me and were there for me.

    Insane.

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