You know what's cool about Lemmy? You can take away the voting aspect. Not from others, but from what you see. I see the arrows, for example, so I could up- or down-vote you, but I don't see how many other people have done the same. I literally just see arrows. And I sort by new, both in threads and on the timeline. So someone downvoted to oblivion still appears to me right in the timeline with no affect. It's a shame this isn't the default. That way, for it to be apparent that someone's opinion is disliked, people would have to do more than click on arrows, they'd have to reply and go back and forth, put themselves out there.

I upvote helpfulness and kindness, downvote rudeness, and actually don't vote on like 99% of what I see. I think voting made the social Internet worse. JMO