I didn't mean to challenge or upset you and hope your day is going well. If you don't know what I meant by that we've got quite a gap to cross and I'd rather just wish you the best and move on. I don't like the ways that medical/psychological perspective shifts responsibility for social ills onto the individuals experiencing them and find an individual, political, or even economic (I guess) perspective far more liberating. Whatever you're doing I hope you're happy and it's working for you. It's hard to engage when you claim you aren't generalizing while defining groupings though