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People who make hookup posts, did you ever find anyone real? (lemmynsfw.com)
submitted 7 months ago by to c/asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com
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It seems like you would mostly be contacted by scammers and sex workers, right?

So has anyone ever met someone genuine from one of those hookup posts?

Tell us your story.

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[–] 3 points 7 months ago* (1 child)

I've made posts on hookup subs and communities a few times but they never resulted in anything. I'm not looking for one time hookups. I'm interested in a long term friendship with benefits. That typically takes more work.

I've had a lot of success over the years just taking to people in my orbit so legacy solutions like IRC, ICQ, BBSes, and things like Facebook Messenger (not to mention work email and chat services.) I develop friendships that turn into friendships with benefits.

So, I guess I'm not really interested in hookup culture so haven't spent a lot of time on hookup sites. I prefer a relationship,.

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  • [–] 0 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    I find a FBW thing very interesting. I can fuck a blowup doll any time, so what other reason would you want sex with a person for?

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    I’m an autist and I’m very interested in the sensory aspects of being with another person. I like the sights and tastes and smells and feelings and sounds of the person I’m with. I like to experiment to see how the react to different things that I do. I like to feel and hear them breathing and to see how their breathing changes when I’m doing something I really like. You don’t get that from a hunk of plastic.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (1 child)

    Oh, who does not! Seeing and FEELING the other person go wild, is often even more important than just pleasuring yourself. As I said, we have hands, we can stick it in any object, in any way...the real point is to share something rather unique with another person...something you can't have from a fuck toy.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    The now friend who asked if I could send her a dick pic because a friend told her I would liked a thing that I did that I called the 200 lb naked cat. She was lying on her stomach naked and sweaty and I just rubbed my body against hers. I lay on top of her diagonally and just rubbed my chest and arms and face all over her back. She said, "No one has ever done anything like that to me before. I liked it."

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (1 child)

    Ooh! She actually liked that? Wtf though, you just humped her essentially... 🤷‍♂️

    I mean, if lesbians can do it...why can't you I guess?

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