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What's the longest time you've denied yourself an orgasm? (lemmynsfw.com)
submitted 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) by to c/asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com
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If done intentionally, what were you hoping to achieve? What effects did you notice, both desirable and undesirable? Why did you end the orgasm denial streak? What did you learn from the experience? Did you do it solo or with a partner? Demographic details (eg, age, sex, gender, sexual orientation, relevant kinks), if you care to share, are also helpful to understand your experience.

Btw, I created an !orgasm_denial_psychology@lemmynsfw.com community.

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[–] 9 points 9 months ago (5 children)

I don't think I've gone a full day without orgasm since I discovered what an orgasm is. However, I think abstaining for short periods of time will benefit me, much like not drinking alcohol or energy drinks every day benefits me.

I look forward to hearing about your journey as I make my way through mine.

Good luck, have fun.

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  • [–] [S] 5 points 9 months ago (4 children)

    Right on, right back at 'ya! I hypothesize that how much one orgasms at baseline affects how quickly they will notice the effects of denial. If most people notice peak effects in 2-3 weeks, maybe you'll hit that around 2 weeks (if you plan on going that far). (I'm thinking that multiple times a day-ers, might hit that at 0.5-1 week)

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    So I ordered an, let me be discreet, object intended to aid in my habits. And then said object was delivered to an address that was not my own. Fuck me (please, but also this situation was fucked.)

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    Oh shit! Was the packaging discreet? Did anyone else open it? I hope it wasn't too bad!! 😅 I really feel for you!

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  • [–] 2 points 9 months ago (1 child)

    Well, it has my real name and address on the box, but there's no telling where it went. At least I got my money back.

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 9 months ago

    Wow, sorry to hear that. The package got sent to the wrong destination when the correct destination was on the package - that's super weird. I hope your luck is better next time. Maybe use an alt name just in case...

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