You seem very wise and it's a shame to see you gave up on things like this. One thing is to not care another is to completely give up in despair..
For me it is not about the word, it is about the impact on the world it has when the word isn't used correctly. Quite literally there is more kids being abused because people misuse this word. And I would personally feel sick giving up on that (not trying to say you should, I get that everyone can't fight every battle). So my only ask is even if you don't want to fight some specific battle, don't stop others from doing so :D