The rest are weak sauce as fuck for a variety of reasons …

The invasions may have been half-hearted failures, but they still caused enormous suffering. And the Libyan invasion did not fail if I remember correctly.

That said, I myself was never onboard with the US invasion of Iraq or our long time presence in Afghanistan.

I was explaining why a lot of countries would see NATO as the biggest threat. For this, what matters is what NATO governments do. What the people of NATO countries think or do is, while important from a moral point of view, unlikely to be reflected in foreign policy.