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this post was submitted on 21 Nov 2025
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I get what you mean, and certainly you never know for sure if someone is straight or gay when you first get to know them... but are you saying you never make assumptions based on how someone dresses, talks, carries themselves, and interacts with the men and women around them?
No, I'm more saying that those traits vary from person to person and you can't know until you ask. Assumptions and preconceived notions are how we deal with not having definitive information