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Visiting the US soon - do I really have to tip? (feddit.de)
submitted 3 years ago by to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
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Hey Folks!

I've been living abroad for over half my life in a country where tipping is not the norm. At most you would round up. 19โ‚ฌ bill? Here's a 20, keep this change.

Going to the US soon to visit family and the whole idea of tipping makes me nervous. It seems there's a lot of discussion about getting rid of tipping, but I don't know how much has changed in this regard.

The system seems ridiculously unfair, and that extra expense in a country where everything is already so expensive really makes a difference.

So will AITA if I don't tip? Is it really my personal responsibility to make sure my server is paid enough?

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[โ€“] 13 points 3 years ago (2 children)

Not true, restuarants have to make up the difference in their wage if they dont make enough in tips.

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  • [โ€“] 15 points 3 years ago (2 children)

    Yes, up to minimum wage, which is still often not enought to live on.

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  • [โ€“] 8 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    It's definitely not enough to live on, but that's beside the point, isn't it? I don't tip any other people because they earn minimum wage-- do you? The point is that the person isn't actually making only $2/hr-- they're making at least minimum wage, with the opportunity to make more via tips.

    Tipping needs to end, and the laws changed to reflect it.

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  • [โ€“] 1 point 3 years ago (1 child)

    Being a waiter is a skilled job that deserves more than minimum wage.

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  • [โ€“] 6 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    I don't disagree, but that is irrelevant to the discussion, is it not?

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  • [โ€“] 0 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    That's just my response to the argument that you can choose to not tip because waiters will make minimum wage regardless. Minimum wage is not an appropriate salary for that line of work.

    However, yes, I agree that laws should be changed to remove tipping or at least to require restaurant owners to pay an appropriate wage for the work with optional tips on top for exceptional service.

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