i think two details point to this being photoshop (i saw real pictures later):

1. widow won't stand on casket, this is fucking deranged, she can hug or lie on it in grief, not be hugged in suggestive manner

2. shadow

3. this is posted in memes (meta detail)

which one of those is social cue and not just looking at image critically? even then, people in first level comments convey astonishment (thus correct suspicion), and then follow up comments played along as if this is real, how i'm doing ableism? (i'm asking sincerely, i do try to be accommodating)