Yeah, I am not a psychologist or anything, but I am glad that you didn't take the question as an insult, it came from a place of genuine, potential concern, but it sounds like you've got a decent grasp on yourself as a person, so that's good!
Yeah, I think I would agree that there is probably a spectrum to nymphomania, and you don't seem to place nearly as highly on it as the woman I knew.
I also totally understand your apprehension to just take the data at face value.
Those numbers come from uh... I think it was a fairly large sex toy company that hired an actual sexologist to conduct the study, ie, they have formal training in both psychology and statistics and polling related concepts like how to design surveys with as unbiased questions as possible.
IIRC, I went with that study months ago because it was fairly recent, and actually had a larger sample size than the other academically published studies I'd seen from within the last 5ish years.
That being said, the other recent studies I've seen, with regard to lifetime sex partners... they are all generally within this same ballpark, such that 100+ partners is always going to significantly be an outlier.
The other thing, at least in the US but it is present in other places as well:
There is just generally a rise of incels and femcels, people who have never had sex, or have had no sex within the last year.
The average a person loses their virginity at is also going up, for all sexes/genders.
So... yeah, part of why its so statistically unusual to have 100+ partners is that increasing numbers of people... just never fuck.
The extreme in the opposite direction, basically.
Random, but: is 'ig' short for I Guess?
IIRC is If I Recall Correctly.
I realize I am about a decade older than you ... I am no longer 'with it' when it comes to modern abbreviations and lingo and such, lol.
As to 'keeping the pace': all good all good lol, I wasn't trying to comment on you personally with that, was just trying to do some mathematical extraploation as a theoretical example, to try and explain standard deviations and such a bit better.
As to max encounter duration:
Well hey, 3 hrs is definitely quite an enoyable time, but also thank you, and obviously yes I am bragging just a bit, lol.
I'm a different kind of statistical outlier!
Yay!