▲ 48 ▼ About the 5 years anniversary of chapo.chat ... thank God I didn't enter in the first 3 years of it. (hexbear.net) submitted 1 year ago by Lemmygradwontallowme@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net 36 comments fedilink hide all child comments Funny to think I wasn't here in these 2020-2023 years As much as I have read many struggle sessions here, I believe the current atmosphere is much more chiller compared to the previous period (note to self- I'll prolly elaborate later)
[–] Koolio@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago (1 child) Pulling the underseat handle that says "DISENGAGE" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ButtBidet@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) Some instances on Lemmy don't have the disengage rule, and debate bro behaviour is just OK. I'm not complaining, for some people it's a issue. But if I was talking over something in a pub, and some guy was like "can we please change the subject", I think it's a normal level of politeness to do that and not go "DA FUCK, Y U no admit you wrong". It might just be an old man thing, but I've never gotten a legit "disengage" in my five years here. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ButtBidet@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) Some instances on Lemmy don't have the disengage rule, and debate bro behaviour is just OK. I'm not complaining, for some people it's a issue. But if I was talking over something in a pub, and some guy was like "can we please change the subject", I think it's a normal level of politeness to do that and not go "DA FUCK, Y U no admit you wrong". It might just be an old man thing, but I've never gotten a legit "disengage" in my five years here. permalink fedilink source parent