▲ 955 ▼ New Covid wave has begun and masks should be worn again, scientists warn (www.independent.co.uk) submitted 3 years ago by CollisionResistance@lemm.ee to c/worldnews@lemmy.ml 838 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 51 points 3 years ago* (3 children) Wait, you all weren't wearing masks still? Give a shit about your fellow humans and yourself. permalink fedilink source hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] Frank@hexbear.net 39 points 3 years ago Wearing masks before it was cool permalink fedilink source parent [–] stereofony@lemm.ee 24 points 3 years ago (5 children) From a fellow trans person: I know you mean well, but shame/ridicule is the least effective agent of change. This kind of attitude I hear not just from you but other leftist queer friends just straight up leaves a bad taste in people's mouths and does nothing to convince folks of your cause, no matter how good your intentions are. To quote a Tshirt I once saw: Kindness is more punk rock than a middle finger. Collective care and justice should be rooted in compassion, not denigration and superiority complexes. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 44 points 3 years ago* (1 child) superiority complexes. TIL needing to mask for health reasons is a superiority complex. I'm not going to address any of the rest of your comment except to say, stop tone policing a shitpost. The point was to vent about a genuine frustration, not to convince anyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stereofony@lemm.ee 1 point 3 years ago (1 child) Sorry, but somewhere along the way in leftist circles, "don't tone police me" became synonymous with "I'm allowed to be as shitty as I want to other people because of my trauma" and that's the behavior I can't get down with. Trauma is an explanation, not an excuse. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 1 point 3 years ago* Wait so what trauma are you using to justify your shitty behavior? And you never asked me not to tone police you? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Kuori@hexbear.net 42 points 3 years ago (2 children) yeah we are pretty pro-bullying people who are doing shitty things over on hexbear, this isn't going to land permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [+] doom_and_gloom@lemmy.ml [B] 26 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kuori@hexbear.net 24 points 3 years ago we are of the same mind on this. frankly, i don't care in the slightest about the feelings of people who won't put any effort into protecting the lives of others. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 17 points 3 years ago* (1 child) I'm more on the "bullying bad, shaming with explanation of how to fix your behavior good" train myself, at least when the goal isn't just to make shitheads be quiet. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kuori@hexbear.net 21 points 3 years ago i get you, my issue is that we're beyond the event horizon, you know? these people have had the explanations. they don't care, and their not caring kills innocent people. as far as i'm concerned, it's open season on shitheads. permalink fedilink source parent [–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 3 years ago To quote a Tshirt I once saw: Kindness is more punk rock than a middle finger. Wow. Everything you said before this swayed me but this is such an awesome statement that I had to say thanks for expanding my vernacular. permalink fedilink source parent [–] hariette@artemis.camp 2 points 3 years ago Sir/Ma'am, This Is A Wendy's. permalink fedilink source parent [–] kilgore_trout@feddit.it 1 point 3 years ago I love you. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.ml 11 points 3 years ago I haven't left the house. Does that count? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Frank@hexbear.net 39 points 3 years ago Wearing masks before it was cool permalink fedilink source parent
[–] stereofony@lemm.ee 24 points 3 years ago (5 children) From a fellow trans person: I know you mean well, but shame/ridicule is the least effective agent of change. This kind of attitude I hear not just from you but other leftist queer friends just straight up leaves a bad taste in people's mouths and does nothing to convince folks of your cause, no matter how good your intentions are. To quote a Tshirt I once saw: Kindness is more punk rock than a middle finger. Collective care and justice should be rooted in compassion, not denigration and superiority complexes. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 44 points 3 years ago* (1 child) superiority complexes. TIL needing to mask for health reasons is a superiority complex. I'm not going to address any of the rest of your comment except to say, stop tone policing a shitpost. The point was to vent about a genuine frustration, not to convince anyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stereofony@lemm.ee 1 point 3 years ago (1 child) Sorry, but somewhere along the way in leftist circles, "don't tone police me" became synonymous with "I'm allowed to be as shitty as I want to other people because of my trauma" and that's the behavior I can't get down with. Trauma is an explanation, not an excuse. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 1 point 3 years ago* Wait so what trauma are you using to justify your shitty behavior? And you never asked me not to tone police you? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Kuori@hexbear.net 42 points 3 years ago (2 children) yeah we are pretty pro-bullying people who are doing shitty things over on hexbear, this isn't going to land permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [+] doom_and_gloom@lemmy.ml [B] 26 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kuori@hexbear.net 24 points 3 years ago we are of the same mind on this. frankly, i don't care in the slightest about the feelings of people who won't put any effort into protecting the lives of others. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 17 points 3 years ago* (1 child) I'm more on the "bullying bad, shaming with explanation of how to fix your behavior good" train myself, at least when the goal isn't just to make shitheads be quiet. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kuori@hexbear.net 21 points 3 years ago i get you, my issue is that we're beyond the event horizon, you know? these people have had the explanations. they don't care, and their not caring kills innocent people. as far as i'm concerned, it's open season on shitheads. permalink fedilink source parent [–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 3 years ago To quote a Tshirt I once saw: Kindness is more punk rock than a middle finger. Wow. Everything you said before this swayed me but this is such an awesome statement that I had to say thanks for expanding my vernacular. permalink fedilink source parent [–] hariette@artemis.camp 2 points 3 years ago Sir/Ma'am, This Is A Wendy's. permalink fedilink source parent [–] kilgore_trout@feddit.it 1 point 3 years ago I love you. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 44 points 3 years ago* (1 child) superiority complexes. TIL needing to mask for health reasons is a superiority complex. I'm not going to address any of the rest of your comment except to say, stop tone policing a shitpost. The point was to vent about a genuine frustration, not to convince anyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stereofony@lemm.ee 1 point 3 years ago (1 child) Sorry, but somewhere along the way in leftist circles, "don't tone police me" became synonymous with "I'm allowed to be as shitty as I want to other people because of my trauma" and that's the behavior I can't get down with. Trauma is an explanation, not an excuse. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 1 point 3 years ago* Wait so what trauma are you using to justify your shitty behavior? And you never asked me not to tone police you? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] stereofony@lemm.ee 1 point 3 years ago (1 child) Sorry, but somewhere along the way in leftist circles, "don't tone police me" became synonymous with "I'm allowed to be as shitty as I want to other people because of my trauma" and that's the behavior I can't get down with. Trauma is an explanation, not an excuse. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 1 point 3 years ago* Wait so what trauma are you using to justify your shitty behavior? And you never asked me not to tone police you? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 1 point 3 years ago* Wait so what trauma are you using to justify your shitty behavior? And you never asked me not to tone police you? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 42 points 3 years ago (2 children) yeah we are pretty pro-bullying people who are doing shitty things over on hexbear, this isn't going to land permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [+] doom_and_gloom@lemmy.ml [B] 26 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kuori@hexbear.net 24 points 3 years ago we are of the same mind on this. frankly, i don't care in the slightest about the feelings of people who won't put any effort into protecting the lives of others. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 17 points 3 years ago* (1 child) I'm more on the "bullying bad, shaming with explanation of how to fix your behavior good" train myself, at least when the goal isn't just to make shitheads be quiet. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kuori@hexbear.net 21 points 3 years ago i get you, my issue is that we're beyond the event horizon, you know? these people have had the explanations. they don't care, and their not caring kills innocent people. as far as i'm concerned, it's open season on shitheads. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] doom_and_gloom@lemmy.ml [B] 26 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kuori@hexbear.net 24 points 3 years ago we are of the same mind on this. frankly, i don't care in the slightest about the feelings of people who won't put any effort into protecting the lives of others. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 24 points 3 years ago we are of the same mind on this. frankly, i don't care in the slightest about the feelings of people who won't put any effort into protecting the lives of others. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ThereRisesARedStar@hexbear.net 17 points 3 years ago* (1 child) I'm more on the "bullying bad, shaming with explanation of how to fix your behavior good" train myself, at least when the goal isn't just to make shitheads be quiet. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kuori@hexbear.net 21 points 3 years ago i get you, my issue is that we're beyond the event horizon, you know? these people have had the explanations. they don't care, and their not caring kills innocent people. as far as i'm concerned, it's open season on shitheads. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 21 points 3 years ago i get you, my issue is that we're beyond the event horizon, you know? these people have had the explanations. they don't care, and their not caring kills innocent people. as far as i'm concerned, it's open season on shitheads. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 3 years ago To quote a Tshirt I once saw: Kindness is more punk rock than a middle finger. Wow. Everything you said before this swayed me but this is such an awesome statement that I had to say thanks for expanding my vernacular. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] hariette@artemis.camp 2 points 3 years ago Sir/Ma'am, This Is A Wendy's. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.ml 11 points 3 years ago I haven't left the house. Does that count? permalink fedilink source parent