Women are taught to nurture and develop men. That's great, except sometimes trying puts you at risk, and it's often not reciprocated. Who here has got stuck in the past?
Well, i don't usually date women, so can not really tell what is a "woman"-thing or a "man"-thing to do. It is possible that it is just a "human"-thing. However, the post was specifically asking for our experiences with men, so...
Maybe late disclaimer: this is just my experience (as i said), my experience does not mean your experience is not true/valid/plausible/meaningful. Women can also be at fault/problematic/the problem (obviously and nobody even claimed that). Not all men are like that (obviously and nobody even claimed that).