Well, i don't usually date women, so can not really tell what is a "woman"-thing or a "man"-thing to do. It is possible that it is just a "human"-thing. However, the post was specifically asking for our experiences with men, so...

Maybe late disclaimer: this is just my experience (as i said), my experience does not mean your experience is not true/valid/plausible/meaningful. Women can also be at fault/problematic/the problem (obviously and nobody even claimed that). Not all men are like that (obviously and nobody even claimed that).

thanks for your comment, but unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment, hope you understand 💛