I know you've received a lot of proper responses, but i just want to let you know that this is what we like to see as a community.
This is how we want to engage with posters - people with legitimate willingness to learn, to ask, to speak with an open mind, and to look inwards and do self-crit when necessary. We have spent 3 years doing this internally, and that has forged a community.
Anyone who comes to hexbear with this in mind, and not pre-conceived notions borne from thought-terminating cliches, will soon find out that we're a lot kinder, more willing to have real meaningful discussions and more supportive that you'd think.