since lemm.ee is slated to be gone soon, does anyone know of any other instances with similar policies regarding defederation? i've always loved how i can follow communities basically wherever from here. it's why i chose here over elsewhere. i just wanna be able to curate my own feed, but most big instances seem to have all these complicated beefs that mean i'd lose access to some communities if i moved there.
I guess several people saying they would kill me if they ever met me irl, and claiming their statements were "real, actionable threats" is just a typical online fight in a healthy community.