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Is Lemmy community nice to new users? (lemmy.world)
submitted 2 years ago by to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
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New to Lemmy and I quit reddit years ago and I remembered that r/conservatives was hostile to me for voicing my politics certain other subreddit made fun of me if I was wrong. I'm newish to the fediverse. I'm digging mastodon even though I never did Twitter

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[โ€“] [S] 2 points 2 years ago (11 children)

I had a fun time trying to explain why I voted for stien, I had to tell people the president part of the ballot is the one I have the least impact on and If people were to convince me not vote stien that is leave that part blank

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  • [โ€“] 1 point 2 years ago (9 children)

    Yeah so you'll generally find lemmy users to be quite hostile to your political position. I'm grown up enough not to be "hostile" but to be frank I think your voting choices are very poorly considered.

    To your broader question. Lemmy is just like any other platform. If you say silly things people will rebut you. There is no respect for contrary opinions.

    I've found that lemmy communities tend to be very homogeneous and in many threads if you offer any insights which are not breathless support you'll be heavily downvoted and get vitriolic responses, or banned.

    For example, saying anything critical of China in a .ml thread will result in a ban.

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  • [โ€“] 2 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    For example, saying anything critical of China in a .ml thread will result in a ban.

    Just to clarify this point: they mean that mindless reddit style jingoism will get you banned; reasonable criticism is fine.

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  • [โ€“] [S] 1 point 2 years ago (5 children)

    Lol I can see it's controversial that I voted for stien, but I'm not ashamed, I'm proud that I did.

    But I'm not afraid to be who I am and I don't want to have to conform for other strangers just to use a service. I'd rather we be ourselves and celebrate that we are here on this app

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  • [โ€“] 1 point 2 years ago* (2 children)

    the way i describe lemmy to people who aren't already familiar: it's like r/linux, r/socialism, r/communism, r/anarchy, and r/shitposting got together to make their own reddit and then the rest of reddit starting joining in during the api protests and now they outnumber the original communists, socialists, anarchists, etc. users by a lot; hence the comment you responded to.

    it works great for me because i was in all of those subs and i also left reddit during the blackout protests like 75% of all the people on lemmy did, so you're in familiar company; you're technically not on reddit, but you might as well be if you're part of the right communities.

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  • [โ€“] [S] 2 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I was never on those subs. I use Linux to wipe laptops I sell and I used for projects, I feel if I joined the sub then the posts would go over my head.

    I'm pretty sure I left before the API fiasco. All I thought at the time is that corporations copy each other. Elon apparently had an effect on reddit

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  • [โ€“] 1 point 2 years ago

    it doesn't have to be linux specifically; lemmy was created as a safe space at intersection of open source technology; leftist politics; and genz style shitposting, if your interests align with any of those, then lemmy is purpose built for you.

    and corporations copying each other is the reason why lemmy has become my primary platform. i've been moving from one social media platform onto another each time each platform enshitified because of corporate policies since the days of icq and bbs. my experience teaches me that anything centralized enough or with sufficient financial backing will likewise enshitify eventually, like reddit did, so i stay away from things like bluesky or mastodon.

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  • [โ€“] 0 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Yeah that's not really how lemmy or any anonymous platform works really.

    If you espouse a position that others disagree with they will tell you.

    If your position is ridiculous then you will be ridiculed.

    Personally, I find Lemmy to be a lot less respectful in this way than other platforms. As I said in my earlier comment any opinion that is less than absolutely supportive of the common opinions is heavily ostracized.

    A good example would be the situation with Luigi Mangioni. The vast majority of users want mangioni to walk free, and as a result there's blind support for "jury nullification". This is obviously a complex issue with legal, social, and historic ramifications, but any opinions other than breathless support for jury nullification in his case will be heavily ostracized.

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  • [โ€“] [S] 1 point 2 years ago

    Yeah I can definitely say Lemmy can get toxic. I thought with Redding your karma was a status symbol and indicated to other redditors on how to treat you or even if they wanted to engage with you. Along with you account age

    It's like you had to post animal pics for a week before you got any recognition.

    Here people look at your post or comment likes and decide how to engage with you. There's definitely approval addicts

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