ID: MUNROE @MunroeBergdorf posted: "Please don't be surprised if I block you instead of engaging in 'a debate' about issues that don't affect you, but impact on my life greatly. I do not need to, nor want to converse with people who prioritize their desire to prove a point, over my humanity and rights."

Amanda Jette Knox @MunroeBergdorf replies: "THIS. You owe no one a debate on who you are, ever. Not online. Not in person. Not in the media."

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[–] 24 points 2 years ago (3 children)

It's easy to see this as a jaded mindset, and heck, maybe it is.. but it's still anyone's prerogative to just say "I don't want to discuss this, and if you don't like it, there's the door".

I sometimes engage in good faith conversations, where I later realize the good faith was only from one side of the argument. That SUCKS, so I get it.

Personally, I'll still try to talk, but just because I'm a naive fool doesn't mean others need to be :P

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  • [–] 16 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Well, someone like you won over a homophobic teenager with kindness and a good faith discussion almost three decades ago. And that teen, once he stopped hating for half a second, found out that he was gay himself, so thank you for engaging with those voices.

    I won't tell you to keep doing it, since it is exhausting and I can't tell you what to do, but know that those efforts are hardly a complete waste.

    You're fantastic.

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