For me is I don’t fully understand the notifications very much, like I’m only now seeing this apparently

I also think the federated aspect makes it harder since most people would prefer to have a private alt account for something like this.

I don't want my primary on here but having some anonymity give me more freedom since this is a public server.

I mean I do like butts, though I really would enjoy more discussion and smutty/kinky talk.

This is one of my limited outlets for that kind of discussion. My partner is not interested or comfortable taking about kinks and fantasy.

And while I have friends who will they are not interested in exploring them.

There is stuff I'm not even comfortable taking to my therapist about because I'm not sure she is able to empathize without feeling uncomfortable.

It would be great to have a nice anonymous area where like minded people who are comfortable with their sexuality can talk about it like adults.

Also yeah you have a good looking butt and I love mutual anal play so feel free to post away. If big dick is you thing I probably won't check that box. Now if you want some kink action or have specific fantasies I'm a giver in bed and love trying to fill those fantasies.