Oh yeah Bloodywood get that. They're an all male band. They also have songs about struggling with suicide and living your own truth

(In Hindi:)
I am not voiceless, I am endurant
I m not a stray rock, I am the founding stone of a mountain
I am not weak, I am forgiving
Within darkness, I am my own light

They are the most positive male role models you can imagine, openly talking about personal struggle and about the things they told themself to overcome those struggles.

And they also think the working class should rise up and redistribute wealth. They've used the proceeds from their tours to help homeless animals and pay for counselling for young people. They say if the conditions faced by the poorest in society don't change, the owning class should expect a riot. "No flag on my bulletproof vest".

I know you probably didn't mean it like this, but I'm one of those people who "realized" I didn't need to conform to being traditionally masculine, and this is definitely not something the average person can or should do. If you don't try your best at "being a man," When you're younger other men will bully you, most women will either think there's something wrong with you or not want to talk to you, and your parents will wonder what they're doing wrong. Even people with super accepting parents end up feeling weirded out by "non manly" people because it's not the norm. When you get older a lot of these issues get easier because you can choose who you associate with, but I still get people either commenting or treating me worse because I'm not "manly" enough, almost never the opposite.

I have no idea what to do about this, I'm just saying living as a not traditionally "manly" will have the general population treating you worse for your whole life, and you're either strong enough to deal with that and stick with only the people who don't care about it, or you go back to being "manly"

Fuck every man for himself
It's every man for every man
And everybody else
Everybody else

Dana dan