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What was the dumbest way that you lost a friend? (lemmy.autism.place)
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[–] 19 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Lost all my friends every couple years growing up thanks to the US military moving us around. Do not recommend.

Got a great dad out of the situation though so I’m not bitter. Much.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    Same except my dad was a PhD who never could get tenure anywhere because he has malignant narcissism and makes every workplace he goes to toxic.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    You win. My dad's nice. My mom's the narcissist but pretty mild compared to a lot of the other shit I've read from people who grew up in that kind of home.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 years ago

    I'd bet, even if he doesn't say it, one of your father's biggest regrets is that you didn't have a stable location and set of friends. And if it's not, I'd suggest not bringing it up. Realizing that after all this years could be pretty traumatic.

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