I don't KNOW if they're traumatized but it seems like some of them may be, idk. The first post reminds me of being depressed and insecure and overinterpreting every sign I noticed. I have no clue though how you end up like the other person making that comment. It's like she's getting mad at her own headcannon. That's what the sub seems like, traumatized women hanging around with weird hostile narcissists and everyone getting submerged into misery as a result. It's honestly more sad than incel forums because at least you can laugh at how deranged, whiny and petty some of the incel stuff is whereas this is just sad and weird. And very classist.