▲ 529 ▼ True love (lemmy.world) submitted 2 years ago by The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world to c/funny@sh.itjust.works 159 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] Drusas@fedia.io 7 points 2 years ago (7 children) How does buying/wearing a ring prevent premarital sex? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] yeather@lemmy.ca 21 points 2 years ago* (4 children) Back in ye olden times, you would pay a bride price to the parents of the bride, both symbolizing the eternal debt you owed to your wife and as a way to show you had plenty of money to spare to take care of your wife. You would then give your wife a dower, sonething they could hold onto in case you lost all your money or she became suddenly widowed. This historically was property but became rings or jewelry with expensive stones. The wife would take the dower as a sign she would no longer need to worry, and in exchange be a maiden on her wedding night. These practices were only for the wealthy, until indistrialization brought the practice to a growing middle class. Then, in the early to mid 1900s, marketing campaigns began associating the price of a ring to the love you felt for your wife, leading us to today. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] glitchdx@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago Now this is capitalism. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Drusas@fedia.io 3 points 2 years ago (2 children) I still don't see how an expensive dower would prevent the couple from having sex before getting married, but I guess I'm just too modern-minded. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] yeather@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) It was more for the woman to not sleep around or sell her virginity. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Drusas@fedia.io 2 points 2 years ago That seems so much less likely to happen than the couple sleeping together themselves. permalink fedilink source parent [–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) Doesn’t prevent it, but gives the girl collateral if the guy breaks off the engagement afterwards. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml 1 point 2 years ago Diamond rings are basically worth fuckall for resale. Most pawn shops won't even take them permalink fedilink source parent
[–] yeather@lemmy.ca 21 points 2 years ago* (4 children) Back in ye olden times, you would pay a bride price to the parents of the bride, both symbolizing the eternal debt you owed to your wife and as a way to show you had plenty of money to spare to take care of your wife. You would then give your wife a dower, sonething they could hold onto in case you lost all your money or she became suddenly widowed. This historically was property but became rings or jewelry with expensive stones. The wife would take the dower as a sign she would no longer need to worry, and in exchange be a maiden on her wedding night. These practices were only for the wealthy, until indistrialization brought the practice to a growing middle class. Then, in the early to mid 1900s, marketing campaigns began associating the price of a ring to the love you felt for your wife, leading us to today. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] glitchdx@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago Now this is capitalism. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Drusas@fedia.io 3 points 2 years ago (2 children) I still don't see how an expensive dower would prevent the couple from having sex before getting married, but I guess I'm just too modern-minded. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] yeather@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) It was more for the woman to not sleep around or sell her virginity. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Drusas@fedia.io 2 points 2 years ago That seems so much less likely to happen than the couple sleeping together themselves. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] glitchdx@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago Now this is capitalism. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Drusas@fedia.io 3 points 2 years ago (2 children) I still don't see how an expensive dower would prevent the couple from having sex before getting married, but I guess I'm just too modern-minded. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] yeather@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) It was more for the woman to not sleep around or sell her virginity. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Drusas@fedia.io 2 points 2 years ago That seems so much less likely to happen than the couple sleeping together themselves. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] yeather@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) It was more for the woman to not sleep around or sell her virginity. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Drusas@fedia.io 2 points 2 years ago That seems so much less likely to happen than the couple sleeping together themselves. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Drusas@fedia.io 2 points 2 years ago That seems so much less likely to happen than the couple sleeping together themselves. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) Doesn’t prevent it, but gives the girl collateral if the guy breaks off the engagement afterwards. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml 1 point 2 years ago Diamond rings are basically worth fuckall for resale. Most pawn shops won't even take them permalink fedilink source parent
[–] alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml 1 point 2 years ago Diamond rings are basically worth fuckall for resale. Most pawn shops won't even take them permalink fedilink source parent