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[–] 15 points 3 years ago* (2 children)

Butt stuff, those harness style underwear and harnesses in general, chokers. (Nothing too bdsm-y, just the style is sexy) That heavy egirl makeup with the winged eyeliner. Filming and taking private pictures.suoer sloppy blowjobs. Fishnets. thigh high socks with the stripes.

We rarely do anything but my wife likes lace underwear as her limit, and hand stuff. Sometimes PiV.

She gives me a lot of shit and judges me for asking for these things, but on the grand scheme of things I feel like I'm not that crazy.

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  • [–] 7 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    Nothing personal against your wife but I think you deserve better

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  • [–] 4 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    With our sex life, maybe, but she's an incredible woman in every other way, so you take the rough with the smooth. We're both reletively young so things might change as we get old.

    I live in hope. Probably futile hope, but we'll see!

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  • [–] 7 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    If you settle for less than you deserve, you end up with less than you settled for.

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    It’s probably not hopeless. After 20 years together, we kinda started out where you are and are having more and better sex than before. She probably has hang-ups. Try adding more dirty talk and get the communication going in the heat of the moment rather than before or after. Start as tame as you have to and see where it goes after a while.

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  • [–] 4 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    Those are just kinks. It's one thing if your wife doesn't want to do them, but it's shitty of her to actively talk down to you for having them. My ex wife was like that and it's a huge part of the reason she's my ex

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