Thanks gibsy, I appreciate it. Already in the process of doing all that. Apparently my org is trying to put the responsibility for my stuff onto child protection and their placement coordination unit for moving him in, since they said he wasn't a good match. I don't really give a shit who pays for it, as long as somebody does and in a reasonable timeframe. But tbh, my org has the ability to refuse referrals, the pathetic sponge of a man running the show was just too scared to say "no" to PCU and accepted the referral anyway.
I told them I don't feel comfortable here on my own, they've said they'll ask for supports. But I'm going to raise hell if they refuse. Completely agree with what you've written - they've screwed up not just once, but about a dozen times in a row. They've had so many opportunities to prevent this, but they kept making bad decision after bad decision and now I'm paying for it.