▲ 536 ▼ Bought a new pack of a hair product which now uses 6% less natural ingredients and is no longer vegan (lemmy.zip) submitted 2 years ago by Blizzard@lemmy.zip to c/mildlyinteresting@lemmy.world 110 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 20 points 2 years ago (15 children) Blonde = female; blond = male permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 15 child comments replies: [–] spaduf@slrpnk.net 10 points 2 years ago But that's the french's fault. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Blizzard@lemmy.zip [S] 5 points 2 years ago I thought it was blond = hair colour and blonde = person with blond hair. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Steve@startrek.website 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Excuse me wtf permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 7 points 2 years ago I shit you not, that is the etymological distinction between the two. How strictly that distinction is observed is an open question. permalink fedilink source parent [–] samus12345@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (10 children) What if they're non-binary? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [–] PrinceWith999Enemies@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) Blondə permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] samus12345@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago Blondx permalink fedilink source parent [+] rand_alpha19@moist.catsweat.com 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [+] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today -9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (6 children) If they're non-binary, you're going to be so anxious about using the right pronouns that you won't even notice their hair color. Edit: it's a joke answer,, people, in response to a joke question. It's not made at the expense of any marginalized individual or group. The only people who would be anxious about the situation are allies; the 'phobes don't give a shit. Untwist yer knickers. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 11 points 2 years ago (3 children) Nah, most enbys are chill and recognize that pronouns can be easy to forget. You're just upset that people get annoyed when you repeatedly misgender them. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] samus12345@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) I had firsthand experience when an enby stayed at our place for a while. My old Gen X self had trouble remembering to use the correct pronouns sometimes, but it got easier with practice. Decades of using only binary pronouns for individuals takes time to unlearn. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 4 points 2 years ago I'll be honest, it took me a while to start remembering "they/them", even for myself. However, now I have the opposite problem, which is that I tend to substitute "they/them" for gendered pronouns. Normally that's not a problem because most people accept neutral pronouns, but some people can be very picky about their pronouns and then I have to remember that "they/them" can't be universally applied to everyone. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 1 point 2 years ago Agreed, all the NBs I know are chill. Their "allies", not so much. permalink fedilink source parent [–] match@pawb.social 3 points 2 years ago Have you talked to your therapist about that? permalink fedilink source parent [–] samus12345@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago Being considerate just takes practice. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] spaduf@slrpnk.net 10 points 2 years ago But that's the french's fault. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Blizzard@lemmy.zip [S] 5 points 2 years ago I thought it was blond = hair colour and blonde = person with blond hair. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Steve@startrek.website 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Excuse me wtf permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 7 points 2 years ago I shit you not, that is the etymological distinction between the two. How strictly that distinction is observed is an open question. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 7 points 2 years ago I shit you not, that is the etymological distinction between the two. How strictly that distinction is observed is an open question. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (10 children) What if they're non-binary? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [–] PrinceWith999Enemies@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) Blondə permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] samus12345@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago Blondx permalink fedilink source parent [+] rand_alpha19@moist.catsweat.com 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [+] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today -9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (6 children) If they're non-binary, you're going to be so anxious about using the right pronouns that you won't even notice their hair color. Edit: it's a joke answer,, people, in response to a joke question. It's not made at the expense of any marginalized individual or group. The only people who would be anxious about the situation are allies; the 'phobes don't give a shit. Untwist yer knickers. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 11 points 2 years ago (3 children) Nah, most enbys are chill and recognize that pronouns can be easy to forget. You're just upset that people get annoyed when you repeatedly misgender them. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] samus12345@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) I had firsthand experience when an enby stayed at our place for a while. My old Gen X self had trouble remembering to use the correct pronouns sometimes, but it got easier with practice. Decades of using only binary pronouns for individuals takes time to unlearn. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 4 points 2 years ago I'll be honest, it took me a while to start remembering "they/them", even for myself. However, now I have the opposite problem, which is that I tend to substitute "they/them" for gendered pronouns. Normally that's not a problem because most people accept neutral pronouns, but some people can be very picky about their pronouns and then I have to remember that "they/them" can't be universally applied to everyone. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 1 point 2 years ago Agreed, all the NBs I know are chill. Their "allies", not so much. permalink fedilink source parent [–] match@pawb.social 3 points 2 years ago Have you talked to your therapist about that? permalink fedilink source parent [–] samus12345@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago Being considerate just takes practice. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] PrinceWith999Enemies@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) Blondə permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] samus12345@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago Blondx permalink fedilink source parent
[+] rand_alpha19@moist.catsweat.com 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today -9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (6 children) If they're non-binary, you're going to be so anxious about using the right pronouns that you won't even notice their hair color. Edit: it's a joke answer,, people, in response to a joke question. It's not made at the expense of any marginalized individual or group. The only people who would be anxious about the situation are allies; the 'phobes don't give a shit. Untwist yer knickers. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 11 points 2 years ago (3 children) Nah, most enbys are chill and recognize that pronouns can be easy to forget. You're just upset that people get annoyed when you repeatedly misgender them. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] samus12345@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) I had firsthand experience when an enby stayed at our place for a while. My old Gen X self had trouble remembering to use the correct pronouns sometimes, but it got easier with practice. Decades of using only binary pronouns for individuals takes time to unlearn. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 4 points 2 years ago I'll be honest, it took me a while to start remembering "they/them", even for myself. However, now I have the opposite problem, which is that I tend to substitute "they/them" for gendered pronouns. Normally that's not a problem because most people accept neutral pronouns, but some people can be very picky about their pronouns and then I have to remember that "they/them" can't be universally applied to everyone. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 1 point 2 years ago Agreed, all the NBs I know are chill. Their "allies", not so much. permalink fedilink source parent [–] match@pawb.social 3 points 2 years ago Have you talked to your therapist about that? permalink fedilink source parent [–] samus12345@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago Being considerate just takes practice. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 11 points 2 years ago (3 children) Nah, most enbys are chill and recognize that pronouns can be easy to forget. You're just upset that people get annoyed when you repeatedly misgender them. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] samus12345@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) I had firsthand experience when an enby stayed at our place for a while. My old Gen X self had trouble remembering to use the correct pronouns sometimes, but it got easier with practice. Decades of using only binary pronouns for individuals takes time to unlearn. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 4 points 2 years ago I'll be honest, it took me a while to start remembering "they/them", even for myself. However, now I have the opposite problem, which is that I tend to substitute "they/them" for gendered pronouns. Normally that's not a problem because most people accept neutral pronouns, but some people can be very picky about their pronouns and then I have to remember that "they/them" can't be universally applied to everyone. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 1 point 2 years ago Agreed, all the NBs I know are chill. Their "allies", not so much. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 child) I had firsthand experience when an enby stayed at our place for a while. My old Gen X self had trouble remembering to use the correct pronouns sometimes, but it got easier with practice. Decades of using only binary pronouns for individuals takes time to unlearn. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 4 points 2 years ago I'll be honest, it took me a while to start remembering "they/them", even for myself. However, now I have the opposite problem, which is that I tend to substitute "they/them" for gendered pronouns. Normally that's not a problem because most people accept neutral pronouns, but some people can be very picky about their pronouns and then I have to remember that "they/them" can't be universally applied to everyone. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 4 points 2 years ago I'll be honest, it took me a while to start remembering "they/them", even for myself. However, now I have the opposite problem, which is that I tend to substitute "they/them" for gendered pronouns. Normally that's not a problem because most people accept neutral pronouns, but some people can be very picky about their pronouns and then I have to remember that "they/them" can't be universally applied to everyone. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 1 point 2 years ago Agreed, all the NBs I know are chill. Their "allies", not so much. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] match@pawb.social 3 points 2 years ago Have you talked to your therapist about that? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago Being considerate just takes practice. permalink fedilink source parent