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Simple question: Are you a nice person? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 5 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Sure, "nice" needs some definition.

But that's your call. I'm asking you if you are a nice person.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 5 months ago

Depends. I default to being friendly, but I’m not good at it. I’m a terrible conversationalist, and what is logical to me (from my perspective) often gets misconstrued as being an asshole. It’s never my intention, but I’m awful at reading people too. I just never really took the time to learn how to… people.