Thank you! The line is mine, but it's heavily inspired by "Gender Nihilism" by Alyson Escalate and "The Xenofeminist Manifesto" as well as other feminist works that go against the 'biological destiny' narrative, i.e. The Dialectics of Sex by Shulamith Firestone which is ironically enough sometimes cited by TERFs so YMMV but I don't read the work as justifying their beliefs at all, though I find it disagreeable in other ways.

It is perhaps also worthwhile reading the sort of discourse the above works arose almost in response to: the patriarchal falsification of the biological facts of cis women and suppression of education relating to that which would threaten the patriarchal premise, beautifully illustrated in Evelyn Reed's "Is biology women's destiny?" (Marxist Internet Archive), because the above works are written to suggest that while the above is true, it may be that the better line of thinking is to ultimately reject identity, because it's not the word but the desire to classify people into identities like this that really is ultimately harmful.

I haven't experienced it myself, but my confidence is so busted that tolerating my existence qualifies aa great inclusion. I do think bear website is ahead of other spaces, but what issues do you have with how it is now? Is there anything that could be done immediately to improve it?

I fear going into an irl space...

Not on here surely? Practicing ABA on your own child should be classed as a crime, fuck.

Yw, of course

Yeah I think so too, but if my comrades have concerns I wanna hear em. Just because I'm happy going on autistic screeds all the time, doesn't mean it's great for everyone.